"When did someone last change your mind?": an interesting question on this week's Radio 4 "Any Questions", that initially stumped all the panellists (according to the presenter's observations!), and which of course they all then proceeded to dodge/spin into political dogma -- with the exception of the Conservative peer, who thereby gained some respect in my eyes. Because yes, it *is* hard to think of any occasion in which someone else's opinion/arguments have honestly changed yours -- most of us are exceedingly stuck in our opinions, once we have actively formed them, which means that change, where it happens, tends to be experienced on an emotional level as the result of a violent apostasy or sense of betrayal. People are 'converted' from their opinions rather than simply changing their minds as a result of someone else's argument... (Which is one reason the jury system tries to go to some lengths to pick jurors who haven't heard all about the case in advance, and why press coverage is limited as soon as there is a case to be brought, in a nowadays fairly vain attempt to avoid bringing in a jury whose minds have been influenced by advance knowledge, potentially presented by those with biased opinions...)
Like the "Question Time" panellists, I too drew an immediate panicked blank in the face of that particular challenge; I'm not sure I can honestly think of *any* case in which an opinion of mine in one direction has been changed as the result of someone else's representations. Like most people, I cling to my prejudices even if battered by a tsunami of vociferous opposing arguments, which may shut me down but don't actually change my belief...
I think the best example that comes to mind, though it is not the result of anything that anyone else actually said to me, is my reluctant relaxation of my kneejerk distaste for Real Person Fiction. I could never understand why there would be any attraction in it at all; having now been lured by morbid curiosity into reading some (mainly because there was next to no *non*-RPF for that particular fandom, with only a handful of fics in existence overall) in a situation where I had a sufficiently detailed background knowledge to be able to appreciate the sources that were being drawn on and the very recognisable character dynamics... yes, I can say that I appreciated it and now realise that it *can* be done without being grossly offensive. Though I still wouldn't want the people involved to read it (as to be fair I understand that most of the writers wouldn't) and still find the attempted erotica neither convincing nor appealing; I did find the non-erotic interactions charming and funny, though, and can see that they were written from a position of affectionate --even if, in the most entertaining example, very silly!-- fandom.
So someone, or someones, did change my mind, albeit not by arguing out their case (which to be frank I don't think would have had any effect, just as pro-slash arguments don't make me like slash any the better) but by practical demonstration, which is probably the only way to do it.
Like the "Question Time" panellists, I too drew an immediate panicked blank in the face of that particular challenge; I'm not sure I can honestly think of *any* case in which an opinion of mine in one direction has been changed as the result of someone else's representations. Like most people, I cling to my prejudices even if battered by a tsunami of vociferous opposing arguments, which may shut me down but don't actually change my belief...
I think the best example that comes to mind, though it is not the result of anything that anyone else actually said to me, is my reluctant relaxation of my kneejerk distaste for Real Person Fiction. I could never understand why there would be any attraction in it at all; having now been lured by morbid curiosity into reading some (mainly because there was next to no *non*-RPF for that particular fandom, with only a handful of fics in existence overall) in a situation where I had a sufficiently detailed background knowledge to be able to appreciate the sources that were being drawn on and the very recognisable character dynamics... yes, I can say that I appreciated it and now realise that it *can* be done without being grossly offensive. Though I still wouldn't want the people involved to read it (as to be fair I understand that most of the writers wouldn't) and still find the attempted erotica neither convincing nor appealing; I did find the non-erotic interactions charming and funny, though, and can see that they were written from a position of affectionate --even if, in the most entertaining example, very silly!-- fandom.
So someone, or someones, did change my mind, albeit not by arguing out their case (which to be frank I don't think would have had any effect, just as pro-slash arguments don't make me like slash any the better) but by practical demonstration, which is probably the only way to do it.
Re: *Resisting the urge to dive into the Internet Rabbit hole*
Date: 2026-03-31 10:19 pm (UTC)Yes, my reaction at the time was that 'back to the 1940s' really didn't sound that bad at all compared to the sort of apocalypse I'd been expecting -- it was very little removed in practical terms from the sort of life I was living at the time, or had lived at points in the past! But that was a long time ago now, and I've become addicted to things like computer games and having archive film and newsprint available free of charge and on demand (and an endless supply of foreign-language programming to practise on, instead of a handful of course tapes...)
And no, you don't miss in any case what you've never had. Most people are quite satisfied simply to see themselves as having more than their neighbours, however little in absolute terms that may be :-)
Re: *Resisting the urge to dive into the Internet Rabbit hole*
Date: 2026-03-31 11:57 pm (UTC)I was talking about what the scientists of 50 years ago were saying about sustainability, compared to what new (if it is new) consensus they've reached today, and what new evidence they've used to reach that conclusion,
... Speaking of changing minds.
Re: *Resisting the urge to dive into the Internet Rabbit hole*
Date: 2026-04-03 12:41 am (UTC)I did do a little cursory Internet digging and unearthed a 1980 United Nations prediction that the global population would have risen to 8 billion persons by the year 2025, which turns out to have been pretty much accurate: https://digitallibrary.un.org/record/29363/files/un_1980_world_population.pdf
And that did not, for example, anticipate the fact that the vast population of the then USSR would *decline* from the 1990s onwards instead of increasing on its forecast curve... (Unfortunately I can't read the whole PDF since it consistently crashes for me after the first few pages, but I wasn't planning to do more than skim the hundred-odd pages anyway!)
Earlier apocalyptic predictions: The Road to Survival (1948)
and The Population Bomb a generation later, confidently (and, as it turned out, erroneously) predicting mass starvation by the 1970s. But I can't find anything about calculations of *technology* levels as opposed to food supply.
1972 projections: The Limits to Growth" (In 2015, both industrial output per capita and food per capita peak at US$375 per person (1970s dollars, about $2,890 today) and 500 vegetable-equivalent kilograms/person).
Current calculations ("to keep a comfortable European average per capita product of 11,000USD" -- for comparison, a 'minimum lifestyle' pension income is currently calculated at £13,400 per year (more like 18,000USD), which leaves "no room to run your own car" and one week's annual holiday within the UK) are apparently for a maximum world population of about 3 billion (thousand million?) people, although probably not the most disinterested of sources: https://overpopulation-project.com/what-is-the-optimal-sustainable-population-size-of-humans/